Midlife grump over disappearance of car

You know there’s no hope when your kids fight over which one of them is going to drive your car.  Next time you look it’s gone from the drive on some jaunt.  And they don’t ask if I’d maybe wanted to use it myself.  They think I don’t actually have anywhere to go.  Need some new rules around here.  Need to buy a wheel clamp too.

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WARNING

WARNING was voted Britain’s favourite poem in 1996.  It was written in 1961 by Jenny Joseph and is known and loved the world over.  Its declaration of defiance, vividly and cleverly expressed, appeals to the rebel in all of us as we secretly yearn to shake off the shackles of propriety, and enjoy the gleeful freedom of cocking a snook at the rest of the world.

The poem is particularly meaningful for this midlife blogger as it was given to me as a gift by my daughter a few years ago; she felt that it described me spot on.  My indignant reaction – Hey, I’m not old yet.  I do, however, wear purple.  The shops are full of it this autumn.  Any thoughts from other purple-wearing midlifers?

WARNING

When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me.

And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

And satin sandals, and say we’ve no money for butter.

I shall sit down on the pavement when I’m tired

And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells

And run my stick along the public railings

And make up for the sobriety of my youth.

I shall go out in my slippers in the rain

And pick the flowers in other people’s gardens

And learn to spit.

You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat

And eat three pounds of sausages at a go

Or only bread and pickle for a week

And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.

But now we must have clothes that keep us dry

And pay our rent and not swear in the street

And set a good example for the children.

We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.

But maybe I ought to practise a little now?

So people who know me are not too shocked or surprised

When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.

By Jenny Joseph

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Fightstar cover of Battlefield from BBC Radio1 Live Lounge

Fightstar cover of Jordin Sparks’ single Battlefield – I love this cover track.  Even though I’m not a big fan of Jordin Sparks.  Perhaps we could have some midlife feedback and thoughts from other music loving midlifers out there.

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